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I need some advice...
« Thread Started on Jul 2, 2008, 11:57am »

I know it's really quick but I'm so confused about this.
Okay, this is going to take some explaining.
Two years ago I met a really awesome guy, we dated for about 10 months then he broke up with me. The last time I tried to contact him, he told me never to talk to him again, that he wanted nothing to do with me. I got a text from him on Monday, asking how I was, calling me hun and stuff like he used to.
As people on Pf know, I'm dating Wandmaster14, which is really awesome.
As if I wasn't confused enough, I found out that there is a guy who likes me, who actually lives in Glasgow. I don't know him that well but everyone says he really cool.
My friend, who knows everything I've just typed thinks I should go out with the dude from Glasgow but I care about Will too much, plus I have serious trust issues, you have no idea how long it's taken me to type this. I keep stopping and deleting everything, then going back and typing it again.

Anyway, got any ideas on what I should do?

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #1 on Jul 2, 2008, 4:26pm »

well do you see Will like in real life? And how far away are you from this guy in Glasgow? I Think it would be really simple if you got with someone close. Becuase if its just with someone long distance, your not gonna get as close as you want. ya know. tell me more.

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #2 on Jul 3, 2008, 2:04am »

I think that you should try and just like go out with wandmaster online, like best friends or something. (me and another person did it, we both were dating someone different irl, but we were e-dating, if you will, online, so we could get closer and still be with someone we knew irl)

just talk to both of them, if they like you, they'll undeerstand

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #3 on Jul 3, 2008, 5:04am »

Well, I live in Glasgow too, so I can basically see that guy every day. I don't know him that well though and I've only talked to him once. From that I'm pretty sure the only thing we have in common is our music tastes. The thing is, the only time I actually see that dude is when we're both in the city center. Basically that's where my friends and I hang out, I've only just started going though and don't know that many people there.
Anyway, there's all the info I can give you on that guy.

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #4 on Jul 3, 2008, 11:02pm »

well, i kinda like the girl up theres idea. juss tell em. your talking to someone online, but you would like to get to know them as well. or just tell Will you would love to keep the relationship you have, and just tell him you are seeing someone where you live. ya know.

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #5 on Jul 5, 2008, 4:05pm »

Yeah I guess I could but I don't like the idea of it. To me it sounds like two timing to be honest.

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #6 on Jul 11, 2008, 4:20pm »

No. i dont think it as two timing. i mean, at least your being true to your self. and just tell Will your involved with someone close to you. ya know. i think he owuld understand.

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #7 on Jul 13, 2008, 2:36pm »

EDIT:
I've ended with William, I know it was the right thing to do so why are my eyes watering? :-[

Y'know, the hardest thing about this is that he wants to stay friends. I could deal with him hating me -'cause I'm hating myself right now- but this really hurts.
I'm dating someone in Glasgow, it wasn't the guy I mentioned because well,
a)He was 17 or something
and b)I haven't seen him since the last time I posted.

Anyway, the guy I'm dating now is really sweet. We have loads in common and I've seen him basically every day since we started hanging around with each other.

Am I a cow for still liking William?

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Re: I need some advice...
« Reply #8 on Aug 12, 2008, 4:59am »

I dated him i think. He was on hexrpg.com. HE's a romance role-player right? Yeah. I was totally head-over-heels for him. Then he got disabled, and i felt lost. then i got a life. thaaannkkks KODY! (ummmm. When i date dhim will was his rp name)

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